Feel free to cut and paste things together and create your own special ceremony. If you get stuck, feel free to send me incomplete ceremonies you are struggling with and I will try to help you finish them.

FAQ: Can we use humor in our ceremony? My goodness, yes! I am a particular fan of including humor in ceremonies, especially if laughter is something you share in your daily life. Why shouldn't there be some real and true statements in the ceremony about your life together. See sample #'s 4, 5, 18.5, 19 for some fun.


Here are some sample ceremonies for your to get ideas from and see how others have planned out their ceremonies. You will see lots of similarities between them, as many couples keep gravitating toward the same lovely passages. 

Sample #1 Amy and Craig

Sample #2 Ann and Dana

Sample #3 Bethanie and Victor

Sample #4 Bethia and David

Sample #5 Cat and Chris

Sample #6 Chuck and Cindy

Sample #7 Daniel and Fatemah

Sample #8 Diane and Dan

Sample #9 Eileen and Emery

Sample #10 Heather and Chris

Sample #11 Gary and Yan

Sample #12 Greg and Rachelle 

Sample #13 Hollybeth and Chris

Sample #14 Jennifer and Shane

Sample #15 Jeremy and Dara

Sample #16 Katie and Joey

Sample #17 Krysia and Brian

Sample #18 Jennifer and Randy

Sample #18.5 Marcus and Gayle

Sample #19 Nate and Melissa

Sample #20 Connor Jones

Sample #21 Rob and Katie

Sample #22 Robin and Jim

Sample #23 Roger and Ashley

Sample #24 A fairly basic one

Sample #25 Wendy and Joel

Sample #26 Really, really short and simple


The Apache Wedding Blessing

(this is one of my favorite blessings for marriage)

Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter for the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other.  Now there will be no loneliness, for each of you will be companion to the other.  Now you are two persons, but there is only one life before you.  May beauty surround you both in the journey ahead and through all the years. May happiness be your companion and your days together be good and long upon the earth.